After many hours of toil and formatting I figured out the solution to all of my problems
KISS - Keep it Simple, Stupid
After repeated failed attepmts at rebuilding the kernel (so easy in RH, so hard in Slack) and several problems with gaim and nvidia drivers. I decided to reformat.
I then installed the nvidia drivers from source, worked perfectly. I then installed GAIM with a brand new trick I learned for compiling software:
./configure --prefix=/apps/gaim
so now I have the equivilant of an applications folder on my linux system (although, its only for my custom insalled apps)
So i can run at 1280x1024 and use GAIM, and somehow GAIM fixed my fonts, so now a lot of stuff is smooth as silk. Still not perfect, there is slight overlapping sometimes, buts its better than out of the box.
Gnome was too slow, so I use window maker with nautilus in the background for file browsing. Does anyone know where I can get the true window maker file browser? I found an icon set for nautilus that is a copy of my icon set for my OSX machine. So i feel closer to home.
Linux is very intimading to get started. But I have a feeling that once I am done setting this machine up and installing all my apps. I will use it more than winblows. Especially since now it is faster than my Win2K. With RH it was slower.
This is getting better and better.
My next project is to fix my mouse so the scroll wheel works. Then the fonts will be after that.
P.S. If someone will tell me how to take screenshots in windowmaker, that would be great.