well folks I d-loaded EvilE, RedHat 9, and Mandrake 9.1.
I just threw the cds into a bag and drew one. It was Mandrake 9.1. It's real nice! Kinda like I wanted. It's very inviting and easy to settle into. I also like the fact that it comes with many different Wndow Managers pre-installed. I finaly get to try iceWM and Enlightenment which are very nice! I love how diferently the desktop metaphore is aproached in those environments.
So ya, Mandrake is nice. Im gonna use it till I get board then probably install EvilE.
But please folks, keep posting suggestions, I like to hear about peoples experience with all the diferent distros.