i understand where you are coming from and i applaud you your principles.
i have a negative attitude to the concept of capitalism, but not towards america, excepting in that it, as a nation, sometimes disagrees with some of my principles. I would never judge an indicidual on the basis of his or her country.
I think it is insidious to make kids salute the flag however in an officially non-christian country (and i suppose that's open to contradiction too) it replaces religion as a way to synchronise the population.
Basically i have nothing against the USA or its people but when the US stands for things i oppose, or does things i disagree with, i will disagree no less for it being the USA who i am disagreeing with (if you can understand what that jumble of words was supposed to mean!)